I've highlighted the main problem. Give her want she wants for an easy life - so in essence a 7 year old is calling the shots. Kids need boundaries, they can't have their own way all the time or they grow up to be arseholes, sadly.WHU Independent wrote:My 7 YO niece - brought up totally wrong: totally spoilt, default setting is NO!, doesn't listen to either parent, screams shouts if she doesn't get her way, divisive, vindictive, aggressive, violent, rude, abusive, pernicious, won't wash, won't clean her teeth, has to have her mum with her 24 hours a day (even when they pee - she has to be there!), has started wearing full make up: there is one way - her way or nothing - otherwise she has a total meltdown until she gets her way: all in all one evil; nasty kid.
Mum and dad see nothing to worry about, just give her everything she wants all the time and she'll grow up lovely and fine.
I loathe her and am withdrawing from her life.
My missus has a kid sister who's 9 and whilst not as bad, generally ignores all orders to not do something etc as her mum simply laughs it off every time she's naughty and never follows through with any threats regarding discipline, therefore there is never any repercussions to her actions.