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Little things that irritate you
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Re: Little things that irritate you
It's not an 'it', she's a human being, like your mother, sister , daughter or niece. Jesus wept, we're still objectifying women in this.day and age!
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Re: Little things that irritate you
Unless she comes out and says she wamts to be referred to as 'they' I would still think she is a woman - an expecting woman as well judging by the photo.
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Re: Little things that irritate you
The red dot on sky TV, I don't want to press it, I don't want it there, it annoys me, I press back up and it goes away, change channel and the little bugger is back, sky should have a setting where you can turn it off completely
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Re: Little things that irritate you
Tell you what I won't do EVER is refer to any individual person as they. The daft self absorbed c****.
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Re: Little things that irritate you
So when I am sitting in a meeting room with say ten people in it and I make a comment, perhaps indicating towards said person and say "they" how does anyone know who I am talking about?
Let's face it, it's not very long ago that gender dysphoria was deemed a mental illness and personally I I think the jury's out on whether non-binary is really a thing. How do they know that they just aren't men with feminine traits (which is perfectly ok isn't it?) or vice versa?
Answer is, they don't.
To have to listen to such rigid dogma suddenly in what is a fairly young field is just stupid
I'm more than happy to respect peoples' rights to feel a certain way but I won't be told to re-frame my use of the English language to account for it.
Sorry if that upsets you.
Let's face it, it's not very long ago that gender dysphoria was deemed a mental illness and personally I I think the jury's out on whether non-binary is really a thing. How do they know that they just aren't men with feminine traits (which is perfectly ok isn't it?) or vice versa?
Answer is, they don't.
To have to listen to such rigid dogma suddenly in what is a fairly young field is just stupid
I'm more than happy to respect peoples' rights to feel a certain way but I won't be told to re-frame my use of the English language to account for it.
Sorry if that upsets you.
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Re: Little things that irritate you
They = plural.
It sounds weird saying they meaning a single person.
Funnily enough, it would sound better.
It sounds weird saying they meaning a single person.
Funnily enough, it would sound better.
- Toulouse_Iron
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Re: Little things that irritate you
We already use "They" to refer to a singular person in everyday conversation..Example:
"A person should be allowed to use the pronoun they want"...
It just needs a little adjustment....
People do not have the right not to be offended, however.
"A person should be allowed to use the pronoun they want"...
It just needs a little adjustment....
People do not have the right not to be offended, however.
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Re: Little things that irritate you
but dont you want more chances to see carefully chosen highlights of only the ' elite clubs' in this country , beautifully described by unbiased commentators like Carragher and Redknapp ?Tristan Shout wrote: ↑Tue Oct 01, 2019 8:36 pm The red dot on sky TV, I don't want to press it, I don't want it there, it annoys me, I press back up and it goes away, change channel and the little bugger is back, sky should have a setting where you can turn it off completely
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Re: Little things that irritate you
Out of sight out of mind..Tristan Shout wrote: ↑Tue Oct 01, 2019 8:36 pm The red dot on sky TV, I don't want to press it, I don't want it there, it annoys me, I press back up and it goes away, change channel and the little bugger is back, sky should have a setting where you can turn it off completely
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Re: Little things that irritate you
^^^^^^
Look at the hole on it.
Cue every roll of tape being offended for being tagged an "it" :lol:
Look at the hole on it.
Cue every roll of tape being offended for being tagged an "it" :lol:
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Re: Little things that irritate you
So what if you are in a room with ten men and you say "he", how does anyone know who you are talking about?!White Goodman wrote: ↑Wed Oct 02, 2019 9:22 am So when I am sitting in a meeting room with say ten people in it and I make a comment, perhaps indicating towards said person and say "they" how does anyone know who I am talking about?
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Re: Little things that irritate you
True but why complicate matters further.Hammer1972 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 02, 2019 10:59 am So what if you are in a room with ten men and you say "he", how does anyone know who you are talking about?!
There needs to be another pronoun for clarity. Although I won't use that either. Not out of spite , more that I'm yet to be convinced by the argument for doing so
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Re: Little things that irritate you
I don't really understand what is wrong with he or she. You get a choice of two, just pick one.
How many genders and pronouns are we all supposed to remember? Is this all not really just defeating the point?
How many genders and pronouns are we all supposed to remember? Is this all not really just defeating the point?
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