Maybe.
But just imagine, the nice, tight cuddle Kelly Brook would provide, after delivering such news.
In all seriousness, stoney, that's an awful thing for anyone to have to do, hope you are ok, that poor boy though.
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Thanks Tenbury - yeah, it's been a bit of a tough year and, in truth, at times it's been hard as ****. I've spent evenings here lying on the floor in tears after getting the kids to bed because they said they were sad about/didn't want to be split up which is when it hit the hardest, in truth - I'm not going to say it's been easy on me, but seeing it be hard on them considering they are completely innocent in all this has absolutely sucked balls at times and when it's been the hardest. But as time has gone on that's slowed down to never really being mentioned now - I can't even remember the last time it was. Having said that I can guarantee it'll happen on Saturday when I see them next now!Tenbury wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 11:44 am You give ageing some good advice, perhaps I could offer you a bit.
I've read and re read your post. Seems to me you've done well to turn things around in such a short space of time. Breaking up a relationship, especially when kids are involved even apart from the personal emotion side of it is logistically complicated, and, above all, bloody stressful. I think an occasional self administrated pat on the back wouldn't hurt now and again.
Nobody does Ageing, it's almost impossible to find the right words without sounding like you are in empty platitude territory.ageing hammer wrote: ↑Fri Sep 30, 2022 10:40 am I have no idea what to say to him this is all I could think of.
YorksHammer wrote: ↑Fri Sep 30, 2022 1:25 pm
Thanks Tenbury - yeah, it's been a bit of a tough year and, in truth, at times it's been hard as ****. I've spent evenings here lying on the floor in tears after getting the kids to bed because they said they were sad about/didn't want to be split up which is when it hit the hardest, in truth - I'm not going to say it's been easy on me, but seeing it be hard on them considering they are completely innocent in all this has absolutely sucked balls at times and when it's been the hardest. But as time has gone on that's slowed down to never really being mentioned now - I can't even remember the last time it was. Having said that I can guarantee it'll happen on Saturday when I see them next now!
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I’m currently on sick leave due to my major surgery but had four months off in 2020 when I had my breakdown. “Thankfully” it was during the first lockdown so nobody really knew aside from those I told. I worked for a heartless bitch who’d do nothing but criticise and she drove me down. I refuse to hate her but one day I hope she realises the damage she does. We work to live.dave_l wrote: ↑Tue Oct 11, 2022 2:09 pm Being open and talking about it makes a big difference in my umble opinion.
My MH issues pretty much all stem from work and I've talked to 4 mates recently about the mental aspects of work and how many of us are struggling to various extents. They're all close mates that I've known for a long time but when the topic of work came up we'd pretty much all be bravado and everything was fine. I've raised the topic of how I'm struggling with things and they've all shared theiw own issues which has at least selfishly made me feel as though I'm not alone. These guys work in Energy brokerage, finance and sales, often professions where bravado and don't give a s**t attutudes pervade. It doesn't solve my problems but it's added to the number of people I can talk to and let iff steam a bit as opposed to bugging my wife and or feeling like I need to bottle stuff until my next therapy session all the time.
It massively does.